FAQs +
Etiquette

Do you charge a deposit?

A 25% Deposit is required at the time of confirming your booking. Deposits can be sent via Venmo or CashApp (no notes attached, please). The deposit provides me confidence that you are committed to seeing me.

What happens if I cancel our date?

Please be respectful of my time and let me know if you need to cancel our date 48 hours before scheduled time. I understand that life happens, so I do not charge a cancellation fee at the present moment. However, all deposits are non-refundable, though they may be applied to a rescheduled date at my discretion. If, for any reason, I need to cancel, your deposit will be fully refunded or applied to a rescheduled date of your choice.

Do you screen?

Yes, I do. To ensure both our comfort and safety, I require two clear pictures, one being a selfie of you holding your ID, and a picture of your ID along with one additional form of screening (such as LinkedIn, or employment verification). Everything you share is kept private and confidential — it’s simply my way of making sure our time together is relaxed, worry-free, and focused on enjoyment.

What’s your hygiene policy?

Hygiene is one of my strongest boundaries, and I hold it with great care. I’m very sensitive, and closeness simply isn’t enjoyable for me without cleanliness. Please arrive freshly showered, with brushed teeth and clean hands; I always prepare for you with the same care. If I’m hosting, you’re welcome to freshen up in the bathroom beforehand. And if I feel you’re not fully fresh, I will kindly request that you take a moment to do so before we begin. It’s non-negotiable — our time is so much more pleasurable when we both feel clean, confident, and ready to enjoy one another.

How should I behave during our date?

I don’t engage in anything illegal or unsafe, and I always reserve the right to say no if I feel uncomfortable or if the chemistry simply isn’t there. The good news for you is that if I’m doing something with you, it’s because I genuinely want to. That means the intimacy we share will always feel real, never rushed or forced. I enjoy my time the most when I’m with sweet, generous, and considerate gentlemen who value mutual respect. When the connection flows in that space, I love letting go, exploring, and making our time together an unforgettable adventure.