Essential Reading +
Etiquette
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How do I request a date?
My booking form is the best place to start. You’re also welcome to text me with your preferred date, start time, duration, and whether you’re requesting incall or outcall. Please give me one to two days’ notice when possible; availability on shorter notice is limited.Can I contact you by email?
I prefer the booking form or text. If you choose to email, please include your requested date, time, duration, meeting preference, screening information, and a phone number where you can receive my text. I don’t confirm arrangements solely through email.What screening information do you require?
Screening is required for every first-time guest. Please be prepared to provide:A clear image of a government-issued ID
A separate selfie holding that same ID
A link to your LinkedIn profile or other employment verification
A verifiable, non-VoIP phone number where I can reach you
If further verification is needed, I may also request references. References are supplemental; they do not replace the information above.
When is my date confirmed?
Once screening is complete, we’ve agreed on the details, and the deposit has been received, I’ll confirm our date with you directly. Sending an inquiry alone does not reserve a time. -
Where can I find your rates?
Date lengths and current rates are on my Invest page. Please choose the amount of time that suits you before sending your request.Is a deposit required?
Yes. A deposit of $200 or 25% of the date rate, whichever is greater, is required to reserve my time. It is applied toward the agreed amount for our date.What if I need to cancel or reschedule?
Deposits are non-refundable. With at least 48 hours’ notice, you may reschedule once and apply your deposit to a new date, subject to availability. If you cancel with less than 24 hours’ notice, the remaining balance of the requested date must be paid. If I need to cancel, I’ll offer a refund or, if you prefer, apply the deposit to a future date.Do you prefer longer dates?
I especially enjoy unhurried time together and give extended requests priority when arranging my calendar. You can see the available date lengths on Invest. -
How can I make a good first impression?
Take a little time to read my site, send a complete request, and speak to me with kindness and respect. Thoughtfulness is always lovely If you’d like to stand out and learn what makes me smile, you can visit Pamper & Spoil.What are your expectations during our date?
Please arrive on time, freshly groomed, and ready to enjoy our time without rushing. Respect my boundaries and the length of the date we agreed on. I’ll bring the same care and consideration to you.What if I’m running late?
Please text me as soon as you know. Our date may still need to end at the originally agreed time, depending on my schedule.Is there anything I should know about hygiene?
Yes. Please arrive freshly showered, with clean clothes and good oral hygiene. When I’m hosting, a shower is required before we settle in. If hygiene is neglected, or if you’re rude or disregard my boundaries, I may end the date without a refund.How should I present the remaining amount on a public date?
If we’ve specifically agreed to meet in public, please place it in an envelope or gift bag and handle it discreetly at the beginning of our date. There’s no need to discuss private arrangements in public. -
Can I request more photos or see your face?
The photos I’ve chosen to share are available in my gallery. Please don’t request complimentary private photos or ask me to reveal my face; I keep that part of my life private. Any additional photo offerings, if available, are separate and entirely at my discretion. View GalleryDo you offer FaceTime or face verification?
No. I don’t offer video calls or reveal my face for verification. I understand if that means I’m not the right fit for someone.May I take photos, videos, or recordings during our date?
No. Photography and audio or video recording are not permitted. I ask that our time remain private.What happens if a boundary isn’t respected?
I may end the date immediately and without a refund if I feel unsafe, am treated rudely, or have a stated boundary ignored.
